Day 2: Pray, Tell, Pray: Here
Day 3: Kiss: Here
Day 4: Meet: Here
Day 5: Read, Journal, Share, Remember: Here
Day 6: The 30-Day Challenge: Here
Day 7: Work on the Inside: Here
Day 8: Friendship: Here
Day 9: Grace: Here
Day 10: Keep it Simple:Here
Day 11: How to Choose a Gift for Your Spouse: Here
|At Spurgeon's College with my beloved wife Lori|
My latest post for B&H Academic, "Spurgeon's Valentine," takes a brief look at Charles and Susannah Spurgeon's romance.
*Read the B&H Post.
*Discuss with your spouse the following points.
1. The disconnect between spending money on romance and broken relationships.
2. Spurgeon said that marriage is "not all sugar" but that "grace in the heart will keep away all of the sours." Take a minute to consider your marriage. Refer back to "Day 9." How is God's grace displayed in your marriage?
3. Would angels "find themselves out of their element" in your home? If so, how can that change?
4. What is the "anchor that holds strong amidst trials and temptations" in marriage?
5. Are your wife's clothes "precious" to you? What is your attitude towards clothing, makeup, and other items that are important to your wife? Compare your present attitude to Spurgeon's.
6. Spurgeon sent a letter to Susannah in a box of "Presburg biscuits." What does that tell you about Spurgeon?
7. Spurgeon bought Susannah a table for her bed. Talk about the thoughtfulness evident in that gift.
8. Spurgeon's delight in Susannah's comfort and joy is striking. Do you find delight in working for the joy of your spouse?
9. Spurgeon was in tune with his wife and put Susannah above himself? How is the "tune" of your marriage right now?
10. Would you like for your wife (or husband) to write you a love song? See Day 1.
11. What does Susannah's response to Spurgeon's love song tell you about her?
12. Take the hand of your beloved and pray for one another. We all have fallen short of God's glory. Jesus never did. Wherever you are in your marriage, there is hope. Don't give up. Look to Christ, seek him in prayer, and find a godly married couple to counsel you through any hard times that you are experiencing.
Ray Rhodes leads marriage workshops and Bible conferences. He is the president of Nourished in the Word Ministries.